🎁 Annual members get the whole year, save big & receive a complimentary Girl, Get Your Life Right! journal. See annual options →
You're grown. You're changing. And you are absolutely not gone.
Welcome to the community for women ready to care for their health, reconnect with themselves, laugh through real life, and make room for what comes next.
We bring honest conversation, women’s health advocacy, personal growth, community, and a little “girl, you know better” energy to the same table.
You don’t have to show up with your life perfectly organized. Most of us can’t even find the thing we just put down. Come as you are.
✨ Start free. Upgrade whenever you’re ready.
If you've been thinking, "I don't feel like myself," pull up a chair.
Maybe your body is changing. Maybe you’re navigating perimenopause, menopause, a health scare, burnout, caregiving, grief, or a new chapter you did not exactly order. Maybe you’ve spent so long showing up for everybody else that you’re trying to remember what you like.
You are not failing. You are living through change, and you deserve support while you figure out what comes next.
Here, we talk about the parts of grown-woman life people usually whisper about — and we can be honest, learn something, and laugh in the same conversation.
This is a place to show up as yourself.
Come for the resources. Stay for the women who get it, the conversations that make you think, and the laughter that sneaks up on you when you needed it most.
Join conversations with women navigating similar seasons of life.
Ask a question, share a win, or say, “Okay, is this happening to anybody else?”
Explore health & personal-growth resources in The Vault and The Reading Room.
Attend member live events and group gatherings.
Learn from Shanta’s lived experience as a heart attack & stroke survivor, advocate, comedian & author.
Find encouragement without pressure to perform, pretend, or have it all figured out.
💡 We believe in transparency, too. You’ll know what’s included, what’s coming up, and what it costs before you join. No mystery benefits hiding behind a checkout button.
Real conversation. Useful resources. Room to laugh.
The Community Feed
Talk with members, respond to prompts, share your perspective. “Sis, let me tell you what happened” is a valid opening statement.
Dr. Q's Corner
Shanta’s candid take on health, confidence, family, purpose, relationships, business, faith — and “now what was that supposed to teach me?”
The Vault
Member resources, selected replays, conversations, and tools in one place, ready when you need them.
The Reading Room
Selected articles, reflections, recommendations, and resources for what grown women are navigating.
Live Events & Gatherings
Member live events and group gatherings for conversation, learning, encouragement, and connection.
Wins Worth Celebrating
The appointment you finally made, the boundary you held, the day you chose yourself without writing a whole apology letter.
Rather hear it straight from me?
Reading about the community is one thing — but sometimes you just need to see a face and hear the heart behind it. Hit play and let me tell you, in my own words, who this table is for.
No script, no perfect lighting. Just me, being grown and not gone, inviting you in.
I know what it feels like when life changes the plan.
I’m Dr. ShantaQuilette Develle — known to many of you as HeyShantaQ. I’m a comedian, author, speaker, women’s health advocate, wife, mother, grandmother, and a two-time heart attack and stroke survivor.
My health journey changed how I saw my body, my future, and the life I still wanted to live. It also showed me how much women need spaces where we can talk honestly, ask better questions, feel supported, and remember that joy still belongs to us.
I created GROWN BUT NOT GONE™ for the woman ready to stop disappearing inside everybody else’s needs. We can talk about the serious stuff. We can laugh. We can learn. And we can keep becoming who we’re called to be.
Pick your seat at the table, sis.
Start with the free community, make Core your home base, or choose Inner Circle for a closer connection with Shanta. Choose monthly or annual billing for either paid membership.
or $970 / year · includes the free journal + keeps your monthly 1-on-1
Everything in Core, with a more personal connection and added access to experiences.
- ✓Everything in Core
- ✓One live 1-on-1 with Shanta each month
- ✓Complimentary designated live events, retreats & gatherings
- ✓Early access to eligible events
- ✓Soul Sessions — deeper Tattoo Your Soul content
- ✓Private Inner Circle lounge & member badge
- ✓Inner Circle welcome gift
or $222 / year · 6 months free + a free journal
Where the sisterhood lives. Full access to the community, the resources, and the conversations that keep you moving forward.
- ✓Full community & feed access
- ✓Full access to The Vault
- ✓Full access to The Reading Room
- ✓Dr. Q's Corner
- ✓Member live events & group gatherings
- ✓Standard registration for eligible events
- ✓Space to share & celebrate your wins
forever · no credit card required
See the community, keep up with announcements, and explore selected resources. No charge, no pressure.
- ✓Community feed — view + light posting
- ✓Announcements & community updates
- ✓Selected pieces from The Reading Room
- ✓Replays of selected Ask Shanta sessions
Annual memberships are billed once per year. Membership renews according to the terms shown at checkout. Please review cancellation and renewal details before purchasing.
Your year comes with a journal to help you make it count.
Choose an annual Core or Inner Circle membership and receive a complimentary copy of Girl, Get Your Life Right! — Shanta’s 12-week guided journal for reflection, clarity, confidence, and intentional next steps.
Because your next chapter deserves more than a vision board you made in January and forgot by February.
This is what "you belong here" looks like.
Honest conversation, real laughter, and women who show up for each other — this is the energy waiting for you inside. Press play for a peek at what we build together.
Come for the resources. Stay for the sisterhood. 🪑
The best part is doing this together.
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Frequently asked questions
A community for women navigating health, identity, purpose, relationships, personal growth, and the changes that come with being a grown woman. Expect honest conversation, helpful resources, live experiences, and laughter along the way.
The Porch is free — a way to explore the community and selected resources. Core provides full community and resource access. Inner Circle includes everything in Core, plus a monthly live 1-on-1 with Shanta and complimentary access to designated member events, retreats, and gatherings.
Core is $37/month or $222/year. The annual option saves $222 vs. paying monthly for 12 months and includes a complimentary Girl, Get Your Life Right! journal.
Inner Circle is $97/month or $970/year. The annual option saves $194 vs. paying monthly for 12 months and includes a complimentary journal.
Inner Circle members receive one live 1-on-1 with Shanta each month. Scheduling and format details are shared with Inner Circle members.
Paid members can attend designated member live events and gatherings. Inner Circle also includes complimentary access to designated retreats and experiences. Each listing explains what’s included and whether registration is required. Travel, lodging, and meals are included only when the event details specifically say so.
Absolutely. Start free, get to know the community, and upgrade whenever you’re ready for full access or Inner Circle benefits.
No. GROWN BUT NOT GONE™ provides community, education, lived-experience conversations, and personal-growth resources. It does not replace medical or mental health care, diagnosis, or treatment. Please speak with qualified professionals about your health and care.
Shanta’s faith is part of her life and may come up naturally in conversation. The community is intended to be welcoming and respectful of women from different backgrounds.
You've spent years showing up for everybody else.
Come as you are. Bring your questions, your goals, your whole story, and your laugh. You are allowed to keep growing, keep changing, and still be fully you.